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Some years back, I realized that suppressing anger causes depression (depression is frozen rage). So my suggestion would be not to try suppressing anger. But channel anger.
Being a normal un-zen-like human, I can't get rid of my anger. So I started following a few guidelines... (well - I follow them at least most of the time. There are instances in the heat of the moment when I forget them too...)
1. Never point out a problem without giving a possible solution.
2. Always keep your voice decibel level a note below the other person. (If you keep your voice low, you'll evade all angry arguments.)
3. Try diffusing the angry situation with goofiness.